Foster carer stories – Brenda
Brenda describes herself as "an ordinary mum who is doing the best she can". Others are full of admiration and praise for this single carer who has made a real difference to the lives of the 16 foster children she has welcomed into her home.
With 6 adult children, 10 grandchildren and 3 foster children currently in placement, Brenda's home is buzzing with excitement and joy. Bringing happiness and security into the lives of children is what she does best.
The qualities of a good foster carer
"For me, fostering is all about understanding and treating children as individuals. It is really important to listen and appreciate the expectations of each child whether that is an emotional need, help with school work or developing social skills.
"The children love to play in the garden with their bicycles or play football or basketball. They also enjoy going swimming or going to the library. It's certainly a full-time job but to watch them flourish and share their emotions, opens up a wonderful relationship that is built on honesty and trust."
Clear communication and consistency is vital for anyone considering fostering. Listening to children and being positive is what it is all about.
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Foster Carer FAQs
Can I choose which age group or sex I would prefer to foster?
Yes, you can.
However, you need to bear in mind that the majority of children referred to FFI are in the 8+ age group and we tend to have more boys than girls. You are far more li... read more
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